33 Thank You for Putting Up With Me Messages (Heartfelt & Inspiring)

Every relationship requires some amount of understanding and compromise. Being in a relationship with people, we tend to find things they do irritating at times. There are times when we can’t stand our partners, but still remain in the relationship for reasons only known to us.

If you want to convey your thanks through words, then here is a list of sample thank you for putting up with me messages that will help! Read on!


#1 Thank you for being the most patient person in the world. I know I can be moody and temperamental, but you always treat me with respect. You are a wonderful friend.

#2 Only you can put up with my crazy antics. I am so lucky to have met someone who takes my craziness in stride. Thank you for understanding me and my crazy family.

#3 You may not think it, but thank you for putting up with me when things get hard during our friendship/relationship. It is much appreciated from this end of the equation, and I hope that you know that.

#4 I’m sorry for all of the times that I have been a pain to deal with, but thank you for putting up with me anyway. It is much appreciated by me, and I hope to make it up to you!

#5 Thank you for being patient enough to let me grow as a person and come into my own. You were there when I needed support, and now it is my turn to be here for you the same way!

#6 You are wonderful, and don’t forget that. Thank you for everything!

#7 I am grateful to know a patient man who can put up with all my antics and still think I’m wonderful. I hope that you know how much that means to me.

#8 Thank you for being so nice when I do stupid things. Not everyone would be as kind to a person who is often quite brash, but your kindness brings warmth to my heart.

#9 I want you to know that I have never regretted anything more than losing you in my life. You are a wonderful friend, and I am so grateful for the time we had together before I completely messed everything up. Thank you for not holding a grudge against me too long after what happened!

#10 You are the only person in this world I can stand to be around. You always know how to make me laugh, no matter what kind of bad mood I’m in. Thank you for putting up with me when everyone else gives up on me.

#11 Thank you for not giving up on our relationship when other people would have broken it off long ago. You are so much stronger than people give you credit for and I love that about you!

#12 When things get rough, thank God that we knew each other before they fell apart! It is a privilege that we will forever cherish knowing each other during the good times and the bad.

#13 Thank you for putting up with me over the years – good times and bad. Even though we fought sometimes about stupid things, there is no one else I would rather fight with than you. You mean more to me than anything else in my life right now; thank you for being there.

#14 Thank you for your support over the years. I know that at times I can be difficult to deal with, but it means more than you’ll ever know that you are still here with me. A lesser person would have left long ago; thank you for not doing that.

#15 You’re like my own personal cheerleader! Thank you for always believing in me and cheering me on when things get tough. Without your support, this would never have happened; thank you so much for trying to help.

#16 Thank you for being the best listener ever. It didn’t matter what was going on or how happy or sad I was feeling – you always were there listening to me rant and rave about something that was bothering me. Sometimes just talking about it helps resolve any problems, so thanks for there for me at the drop of a hat.

#17 I want to be with you forever, even if that means I have to put up with all your little quirks and habits. Thank you for being so weird! You’re perfect just the way you are.

#18 Thank you for taking me as I am. It might not always seem like it, but I really do try to be better. Sometimes my bad habits get in the way, but thanks for still loving me anyway!

#19 I know that I can be a handful; but, thank you for putting up with me. Even after all these years, you still put up with my antics and support me unconditionally. Thank you.

#20 Though I sometimes take things out on you, it’s not your fault! You are such a great listener and help me through everything without being judgmental or condescending – even when I ask dumb questions.

#21 Even if things aren’t picture perfect, I can always count on you to be there for me. Thank you for accepting my flaws and loving me despite them. You are one of the most understanding people that I know.

#22 I’m not sure how I would get through this world without your support. Thank you for never giving up on me; it’s because of you that I haven’t given up on myself.

#23 Thank you for being so incredibly kind, even when no one is looking. It makes a difference in my life knowing there are people still willing to care about others, even if it means sacrificing something they want or need to do so. You have made my life better just by being in it.

#24 I’m sorry that I have to be this way. It isn’t always in my control, but it is for the most part. Even when I’m upset, I appreciate everything you do for me.

#25 Thank you for putting up with my ridiculous antics. You are strong person to stay by side through all of this, and I hope I can treat you better in the future.

#26 You are so kind-hearted! Thank you for being so patient with me, even though sometimes it may not seem like it. I know how hard it must be to deal with me on a day-to-day basis, but your kindness really makes a difference in our relationship.

#27 I would never have made it through my teen years without your support and encouragement. There’s no one else who could have put up with me the way that you did. Thank you for being my friend through all of it!

#28 Thank you for always making time to help me when I need it most. You are so invaluable to me, not only as a friend but also as an advisor, therapist, and confidant…the list goes on!

#29 You’ve always been so understanding of my quirks and habits… but the one thing that truly shows your love is when you put up with them anyways! Thank you for your patience, and thank you for putting up with me.

#30 The little things that I do to annoy you may not seem like a big deal, but it does mean so much to me that you always let them go and never complain. Thank you for being who you are — we wouldn’t be the same without your positive quirks!

#31 I know, at times, I can be incredibly difficult to put up with… especially when I’m in one of my moods or having one of my days. You always seem to take it all in stride and always help me through whatever I’m going through. Not many people could handle someone as frustrating as me; thank you for not giving up on me yet!

#32 Thank you for being patient with me. I know that you have been hurt in the past, and for that I am sorry. And while I cannot say that it will never happen again, I can promise to try my hardest not to do anything to hurt you anymore.

#33 I want you let you know how much it means to me how we work together as a team. It takes two people working together in order for us to be successful, and we’re slowly learning more and more about how we work best together every day. Thank you for helping us learn and grow!

Warp Up

Thanking people for putting up with you is not an easy task. For this reason, make sure that your message is personal and includes something specific about the person’s kindness towards you. You can always follow up with a thank-you card or handwritten note.

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